Yesterday was my birthday and the final of the FIFA football World Cup (or soccer). For once this year, I didn't feel super inspired to organize something to celebrate my birthday, and while I'm happy Spain won (my grandparents were Spanish), watching the game was boring enough to not feel like such a celebration.
By an interesting set of random circumstances, I'd never watched so much football in my life.
I happened to be traveling in the US to visit my in-laws, my baby son fell ill, a heatwave, and there I was watching football with my brother in law. I started following around the end of the group stage and I kind of got hooked. I rarely follow much football aside from the World Cup but usually towards the end of the competition, and even then not necessarily every time.
Now it's over I'm trying to remember why I became so interested in it. My younger brother was and always has been into football. It was convenient to be on the same time zone. It was too hot outside to do much at the times the games were happening (except for the players themselves if the stadium wasn't an AC covered dome). Perhaps for Americans appreciative of spectator team sports, it was an acceptable way to spend time.
Or more accurately, for some reason I started seeing what millions of other football fans see and I suppose why they follow, and spend time and often a lot of money on football (tickets and jerseys for example), even though it is also touted as the beautiful game in part because of how cheap and accessible it is for everyone, anywhere in the world. All you need is a ball, or as I've seen kids play with in Tanzania many years ago, a bunch of used plastic bags tied with strings.
On that note, there were some excellent teams representing Africa. I really enjoyed watching the Ivory Coast, Morocco, Egypt, and Cape Verde play.
I'm digressing, here is what I saw and started enjoying in football:
Anything can happen in a truly exciting way. Most of the time there are few goals, so every one of them is a big event, and they can happen until the very last second. Conversely, the opposite can also happen, sometimes there is little action, players kicking the ball back and forth and it becomes kind of boring to watch. Like the final last night.
Players are consumed athletes. Their skills with the ball are impressive and it's inspiring to watch their ball tricks, dribbles, accelerations, kicks, headers, etc. They spend enormous amounts of efforts running up and down a big pitch, it's obviously dynamic. Sometimes it gets pretty rough, physical, and dramatic too – which can also be its own form of fun (possibly with a dash of schadenfreude).
Technically the World Cup should be, and I guess really is, a moment for patriotic nationalistic pride. I did support France. That said given I have multiple ties, I'm also happy to support Spain, the Netherlands (my father was Dutch), and the USA (where I was born). However, I've found the first two points to overtake supporting any one team most of the time. I'd be making excited noises whoever was making an interesting play towards the goal, well, because it was an interesting play. I like to watch fun football. I didn't support Paraguay much against France in the quarter-finals though. They just came across as a bunch of mean bullies.
Still, the day after France was defeated by Spain in the semi-finals, I realized I was sadder than I thought at the end of game. Most people I talked to were equally baffled. It did feel like something had happened to them to go from the competition favorites to being beaten, first in spirit during that game (maybe?) and with two goals against them. I felt deflated, and again watching England lose to Argentina the following day (I lived in England for many years, and they had a great team in this competition).
I eyed the game for the third place from afar, just checking the score, I had other plans. It seemed it was quite the event with ten goals scored, though not what I'd have hoped for France.
I turned the final game on with fairly low levels of enthusiasm. Maybe I'd already saturated on football, but I wanted to see the whole competition I now felt committed to. It was long and slow, those games can happen to, and the tough point is when you know the situation can completely change within a few seconds, the choice to keep watching or stop and miss out on the action can be a tough one.
Maybe that's the final piece of turning someone into a football fan, the fear of missing out. That probably only works if you take the team supporting seriously, and I don't all that much. I'm happy to know I can appreciate and talk about football, and I'm equally happy to take a long break and not watch any for a long while now.



















